Why Your Doula is More Than Their Resume
Hey Mama, 🌻
When you think about hiring a doula, it’s easy to get caught up in numbers: How many births has she attended? How many postpartum clients has she supported? What certifications does she hold? While experience and education are important, I want to shed light on something deeper—a doula’s heart, passion, and commitment to your journey matter just as much, if not more.
In a world that often defines success by numbers, let’s pause and remember this: Every seasoned doula started at zero. 💖
The Essence of a Doula: Heart Over Numbers
Being a doula isn’t about counting the births we’ve attended; it’s about the connection we make with each family we support. A newer doula may not have a long list of clients yet, but that doesn’t mean they’re any less capable of providing compassionate, dedicated care.
Every doula begins their journey with an undeniable passion for supporting mothers—rooted in empathy, understanding, and the belief that every birthing experience is sacred. Whether it’s their first client or their hundredth, the heart they pour into their work remains the same.
Certification: A Starting Point, Not the Destination
It’s important to note that doula certifications, while valuable, are not regulated. This means the depth of a doula’s skill often goes beyond the training they received on paper. A doula’s ability to support you comes from a combination of education, life experience, and a willingness to grow with every birth they attend.
A newer doula might not have years of experience, but what they do have is a fresh perspective, an eagerness to learn, and an unwavering commitment to making every birth they attend meaningful.
The Value of a Newer Doula
Here’s the beauty of working with a newer doula: they often bring an unparalleled level of enthusiasm and attention to detail. They are deeply invested in your experience because they want to grow their skills, build trust, and make an impact.
Think about it this way: the doula you choose is there to support you. It’s not about their resume—it’s about their ability to hold space for your unique journey, to listen without judgment, and to be your unwavering advocate.
A Message to Future Doulas
If you’re a new or aspiring doula, hear this: Your worth is not determined by the number of clients you’ve served. You are stepping into sacred work, and the families you support will feel your dedication, your passion, and your genuine care.
Yes, the birth world can feel competitive, and seasoned doulas often have the spotlight. But remember, every one of them started exactly where you are now. Trust in your calling, and know that there is space for you to shine.
Why This Matters
For families considering hiring a doula, this message is for you too: Don’t discount the newer doula. Take the time to connect, ask questions, and see if they’re the right fit for your birth journey. Experience is valuable, but so is passion. Sometimes, the newer doula might surprise you with the level of care and support they provide.
Final Thoughts
Doula work isn’t about competition—it’s about community. It’s about lifting each other up, learning from one another, and ultimately ensuring that every mother feels supported, empowered, and loved.
To all the newer doulas out there: Keep going. To all the mamas: Trust your instincts. The doula who’s meant to support you will meet you exactly where you are.
If you’re on the fence about hiring a doula, I’d love to chat with you! Let’s talk about your vision for your birth and how I can help bring it to life.
And don’t forget to follow me on Instagram @southern.grace.doula for encouragement, tips, and all things faith and motherhood. 🌿
